Dating games men play

14-Jul-2017 22:15

It’s long been the rule that when dating someone whose behavior is marked by hot and cold reactivity, you’re standing on shaky ground.This is the core thinking of the partner who initiates hot/cold, and serves as their safety net to vulnerability. Because relationship uncertainty makes human beings yearn for stability.A hot and cold player reverts to cold as the norm, with bursts of hot that don’t result in forward movement.The cycles of hot and cold may make you feel like the powerless one. Truth is, men are at least as hard to figure out as women.Some of them are much more ingrained and difficult for the guy to overcome than others.

The good news is that they, like us, usually really do want true love, and down deep they realize that they’d be happier, more content and more sexually satisfied if they had a good relationship.

It appears as though as though your partner has all the strength.